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 Jul 15 2008, 07:31 PM
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okayy..well..im talking to this girl right, her life situation isnt all that good, family wise, like she doesnt even live at home she lives at a druggie cousins house and that isnt even good. but whatever. this girl is awesome, like i dig her n evreything...but she isnt what im "looking" for....she has only been to ONE party..every, and shes 18 in a couple months, never been to a concert, rave, none of that, she sed she would love to go but she is on lockdown..shes getting feelings for me and i am too..we hook up n stuff but..idk..i dont want us to lead eachother on for nothing... i'm "looking" for more of a girl into the things im in, the girl im talking to is great, but i dont want to be the one to 'break' her into the party scene , and possibly get her into different stuff u kno.. but shes so cuteeeeeee... but yeah..idk what to do..maybe advice would help on whether i should wife her or no? =/
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Jul 15 2008, 08:05 PM
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maybe you should introduce her to the scene. And, she might enjoy it. And, she might even start freehanding /stringing who knows (IMG: http://www.glowsticking.com/forums/style_emoticons/default/biggrin2.gif)
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Jul 15 2008, 08:32 PM
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Uhmm....
From personal knowledge, if she thinks that her life is bad, which it may just as well be, shes more concerned with the everyday. Not the raves/concerts. She'd probably love to get out and do things with you. =D. Any 'in a bad spot' person would, usually. Give her a chance to lighten up and do someything fun with you, that you like to do, before you give up. =D
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Jul 15 2008, 09:09 PM
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to warlock - shes on lockdown so its kinda difficult to have her out all night =\
to reahzzz- yeah i know hat you mean, she definitly wants to go to raves/concerts/parties , but she is in a bad situation with things, im just going to keep hanging out with her and i'll see how things go...
i'll keep you guys posted.
any advice from anyone else is appreciated.
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Jul 15 2008, 09:31 PM
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QUOTE (maryjaneinbrain @ Jul 15 2008, 11:09 PM)  to warlock - shes on lockdown so its kinda difficult to have her out all night =\
to reahzzz- yeah i know hat you mean, she definitly wants to go to raves/concerts/parties , but she is in a bad situation with things, im just going to keep hanging out with her and i'll see how things go...
i'll keep you guys posted.
any advice from anyone else is appreciated. I won't ask about her situation...ut all yu can d is support whatever it leads her to, if it's not too bad. Depends on the severity of the subject. lol. Just be there, friend or more than that, that means alot to someone. (IMG: http://www.glowsticking.com/forums/style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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Jul 16 2008, 07:27 AM
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Sounds like she's the perfect girl for you since she'd probably be interested in going to those events when she's off of "lockdown". Is this lockdown a short term punishment or a long term principle?
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Jul 16 2008, 07:42 AM
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nigguh please, if your her friend she will be part of the scene anyways, if your her boyfriend its the fukkin same shit, so just hook up and see how it goes, you maybe the one reason for her to come more to the scene and you can watch out for her and her for you, and what the fuck is lockdown, does it even exist, i thought kids these days just didnt follow rules or parents for that matter, damn it must be true then!!!
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Jul 16 2008, 09:30 AM
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Honestly, it sounds to me like you feel you'd be a negative influence on her in some way and that, by bringing her into the rave scene and your life, somehow you'd be dragging her down. I don't know why you would feel that way, but perhaps its something to consider for you own self benefit if that's how you view yourself...
Without getting into a discussion on specifics, I'll just say that the rave scene is what YOU make of it. If that entails things that you truly feel are a detriment or questionable in any way, maybe you need to reevaluate what it means to you and why you're a part of it.
Beyond that, what you think you're looking for will change over time and its only by having different experiences that you'll be able to figure out in the end what you're really looking for. If you enjoy being with her and you guys have fun together, don't rule her out... but she also doesn't have to be 'the one' considering you're both young and have a loooong way to go before you have to make any real serious decisions when it comes to a relationship.
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Jul 16 2008, 11:04 AM
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thanks for all the info, im going to consider getting with her now.
but sorry about the term lockdown if you guys didnt understand lol, lockdown is her guardians/parents are very strict on them, making them be home a certain time, barely even going out, having to make a pretty good lie just to go out..
oh yeah , and she just got out of a 2 yr relationship, is that adds anything to the perspective?
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Jul 16 2008, 12:57 PM
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Oooh lockdown. Lol that's not much of a reason to give up if there's no fix. That'll change with due time. he 2 yr thing could mean nothing, depending on how/why it ended.
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