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 Aug 28 2008, 11:25 AM
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I've never had sexual relations with a girl who was dominate. I've always kind of wanted a girl who would just throw me onto the bed and take control if you understand what I mean, but no girl has ever done that. I went to a party and I wasn't exactly sober, and I started hooking up with this girl. We started walking around outside for a place to hook-up in secret and she tackles me to the ground and gets on top of me and we do nothing more than make-out but the fact she did that turned me on beyond all I've ever felt. Is this weird I feel like this or is it natural for guys to want to be.. I guess dominated. I don't have a history of abuse or anything. Anything?
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Aug 28 2008, 02:11 PM
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It differs from person to person. Although it's still viewed as strange by many people, more people than actually admit it have an inclination one way or another to domination or submission; and there's an entire spectrum, from keeping it to the bedroom to all-out 24/7 dominated/submissive lifestyles. D/s is a very complicated thing, but it's not uncommon. Entire communities & discussions out there exist because it's still sort of taboo to bring it up, though I don't see why. ...though obviously I'm speaking generally. I can't speak for guys. If you really know what you want and it's not out of a traumatic complex, then wanting to be dominated doesn't mean you're weak, it doesn't mean you're a pushover, it doesn't mean you're weird; it just means you have a preference. Or there's something exhilarating about a loss of control. Likewise, wanting to be dominant only reflects a certain aspect of you. (IMG: http://www.glowsticking.com/forums/style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) So don't worry about it.
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Aug 28 2008, 06:58 PM
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I'm not one for BDSM, but an aggressive chick would be a change. Most people are somewhat afraid of me because I'm pretty big so it would just be an interesting display of confidence.
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Aug 28 2008, 07:21 PM
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well all the girls iv slept with, they let me take the lead . and im comfortable with that . im not really sure what would i feel if a girl takes the lead . i always wanted to try . but turns out ...
lets put it this way . i still like to take the lead and make the decisions in whatever, in bed, in the kitchen, food, trips ..
im the leader of the pack
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Aug 29 2008, 11:46 AM
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QUOTE (FlowRate @ Aug 28 2008, 06:58 PM) I'm not one for BDSM, but an aggressive chick would be a change. Most people are somewhat afraid of me because I'm pretty big so it would just be an interesting display of confidence. an aggressive chick is what i mean, cause when the girl tackled me to the ground and just held me there, i rolled her over and we just kept fighting for dominance and thats i think what got to me the most.. too bad i'll never find out with her lol that was a one of a kind thing.. i dont think i'll run into that kind of girl again but it was an amazing experience. having to fight for dominance i guess would be the termonology.
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Aug 29 2008, 11:52 AM
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Maybe that she fought with you was like she was as enthused about it as you were, like she was playing with you as two children would together, or was it moreso? That doesn't sound too out there.
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Aug 29 2008, 12:28 PM
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Why is that inclination "wrong"? Why are you ashamed of being dominated by a girl?
I think it's hot. It definitely would be a nice change for me if I met a girl like that. Sometimes, I am tired of the whole "implicit, hint-back-and-forth, girl waits for me to make a move" type of thing. It's fun to try to guess if a girl likes me back, but it kind of does get old after a while. So, it would definitely be a nice experience if a girl just pulled me over to the side after class and said, "Hey, I think you're cute - let's talk!" or something.
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Aug 29 2008, 02:01 PM
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well im not ashamed of this. just never really explored into this topic in myself and never really heard anyone else talk about this except people who like pain but thats a whole new league.. no thanks on that.
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Aug 29 2008, 05:40 PM
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Many many men enjoy dominant women.
A woman who can be sexually aggressive is really fun- it feels safe, it makes us feel wanted and desired, and fun- playful even.
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Aug 29 2008, 06:04 PM
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